Mia,
Welcome to the forum.
Sorry about your diagnosis.
It can be quite a shock.
I know that when I found out I had UC, I was overwhelmed with all kinds of feelings of anger, depression, etc... and in fact, it took me a while to go through the 5 stages of grief.
UC is a tough disease.
I haven't had any luck with chinese herbs, however I have had great success with various other things - such as probiotics, vitamin d3, slippery elm powder, l-glutamine, protein shakes, and LDN (low dose naltrexone) which put me in remission.
I would therefore suggest you look into these, and if you are interested, there are things IMO that you can control, which will have a direct impact on
your disease, the symptoms you experience and their severity.
I was able to control my UC into remission through various
supplements, probiotics, diet modification, and LDN , low dose
naltrexone. BTW, LDN is completely safe for breastfeeding.
For more info on the protocol which has put me into remission,
please go to this link: https://www.healingwell.com/community/default.aspx?f=38&m=1666318 , and look at the 11th post.
I hope you feel better and let us know how we can help
you.