Wow, you do seem like a great mom!
UC is a scary thing and the drugs, like any other medication does have potential risks. I've posted this before on another thread and its the balance of the drug risk and the risk of the disease. The mosr common risks of remicade occur during the infusion but also stem out to higher risk of infections. The big "scary" risk is the lymphoma, but it's so incredibly low it's blown a little out of proportion online. Some people claim it doubles your risk and while that is technically true but it's from a 3 out of 10,000 (for normal people) compared to 6 out of 10,000 (for remicade users) and if i remember correctly that jump was when the remicade was also used in conjuction with azathiaprines (6MP), with remicade alone they couldnt prove an increase in lymphoma from the placebo group. You have a MUCH higher risk of dying in a car wreck on any given day, but you need that car to get to work and provide, right? Same thing with the meds, yea the risk is there but the risk and quality of life (or lack there of) from having an active disease is far worse.
I'm getting my second infusion on Tuesday and haven't had nearly the quick response your son has (I also have pancolitis) so be happy it's getting under control and as he continues with the treatments he'll soon be in remission. Just keep hope it's long lasting!
You have gotten great advice so far the members of these forums have kept me sane for the past couple of years and have a wealth of knowledge and experience, but also realize its all individualistic just like the disease. What works for some wont work for others. As far as the herbal and dietary stuff goes, I personally haven't gotten relief from it, there are a lot of people that have though. But for serious active disease most will steer you toward the drugs because the guess and check and time involved to test the diets and what not are just to long for some with the horrible symptoms the disease gives off.
Hey, worst case scenario there are plenty of people here who have gone the ostomy route and are very happy to be drug free, pain free and disease free! Good luck to you and your son!
Note: I typed this on my phone. It's to late and I'm too lazy too go back through and fix typos and grammatical errors, but I apologize for them.
Post Edited (Rabbit81586) : 8/29/2013 10:52:47 PM (GMT-6)