How much weight have you lost?

I'm a 40 year old Male, 5ft 10 tall.  I have lost 22lb since diagnosis last year. I went from a fit and healthy 141 to a skinny and sickly 119 now. (64kg to 54kg).

My symptoms are better, but I have not had a consistent remission in that time, and I cannot gain any weight back.  Healthy eatings, cutting out sugary cakes and biscuits etc.. has not helped either.

Anyone, got some healthy ideas to gain weight?

 

I was 147 in June... and was running a 5K 3-4 days a week. By August I was down to 140... and hardly running. At the beginning of September I was down to 125, and now I am about 128, and the thought of walking up the stairs is exhausting. Oh... and every time I see my in-laws they say "you look like you lost weight."  I feel like saying "Yeah? Well you look like you gained weight."  Isn't there some social ettiquete that says you don't tell someone who is sick that they look like they are losing/gaining weight????