foxyroxy7226 said...
Pluot said...
foxyroxy7226 said...
Not doing the race is not an option because I'm a believer in where there's a will there's a way.
Former competitive athlete checking in to say that the most important thing I learned from being sick is that this is an insidious lie. Motivational speakers, friends and family, and society at large does an incredibly cruel and massive disservice to the chronically ill by insisting that we can overcome medical issues through sheer force of will. I do believe that where there's a will you can perform at a level that is 100% of what your body is capable of. But your body is not arbitrarily capable of doing something just because you want it to be.
So if I understood you correctly given that you are a former competitive athlete. Your saying that when you were competing you were only able to do so when you were 100%? You never competed with an injury? Competing with an illness or injury requires more will because the physical is not there. For example, people who are missing limbs perform competively all the time and they do not have the 100% physical you say. Yet they have overcome their challenges and made due, ExCEPTIONAL due with what they have. Which is more than I can say for those of us who have everything. I may not be 100% but I'm not down and out either. I will always see the glass as half full because life is more joyous this way. I'd rather die living than live dying.. No, you misunderstood me. I was saying that when you give it your all, you can achieve 100%
of what your body is capable of. 100% of what my body is capable of is VERY different from 100% of what an olympic athlete is capable of. Try as I might, my 100% will never be that person's 100%. Having IBD places a REAL limit on what you can do that cannot be changed just by wanting it more or less.
You say: I have UC but I am going to run an ultramarathon anyway because where there's a will there's a way.
How is that different from telling someone: you have UC but you are going to have a perfectly solid once a day BM with no blood, pain, or mucus because where there's a will there's a way? Or, if you really wanted to be healthy you wouldn't be sick? Or, you are sick because you have a poor attitude?