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Posted 7/5/2014 9:22 PM (GMT 0)

garylouisville said...
Maybe this is sexist and discriminatory or whatever but I can't even imagine a guy who would actually want to have anal sex with someone who has UC. I don't doubt that I'm wrong though.

me and you gary...wassssap ....you like, stuff? redface
Posted 7/6/2014 4:38 AM (GMT 0)
Hey now, it might not be for you...but there are others that post who may think that this information is helpful. Respect for others!
Posted 7/6/2014 5:21 AM (GMT 0)
23,000 views..

yeah
Posted 7/6/2014 5:45 AM (GMT 0)

CDN26 said...
23,000 views..

yeah

indeed, great subjects get the most views.
Posted 7/6/2014 5:48 AM (GMT 0)
Well it did take 4 YEARS to get that many views. :)
Posted 7/6/2014 5:51 AM (GMT 0)
But its also been buried and dormant for 4 years
Posted 7/6/2014 5:00 PM (GMT 0)
Great, honest post. A Lot of you have mentioned you think anal sex actually triggered flares. It's something to consider: What do you want out of life?
Posted 7/7/2014 2:22 AM (GMT 0)
Wouldnt it be painful? Though i suppose to some that is a fetish.
Posted 7/7/2014 11:19 PM (GMT 0)
Haven't read all answers but the question you should be asking is
- location of the inflammation. If its in the rectum and suppositories help you then you got to be extremely careful (off limits to be honest)
- If the inflammation in NOT in the rectum then it should be easy, but again there is a question, do you have any other issues, like fissures etc.

Once you answer these questions, its your decision, with all precautions.

Even if you are in remission, it does not imply that anal route is 'safe'. For e.g. I am in remission but my rear end hurts a lot some times just when I am wiping it off. I can not figure out what the heck is going on. If you have any issues like this, you must address them before trying it out.
Posted 7/9/2014 11:20 AM (GMT 0)
Well I have uc and my husband is still keen on the idea...
Posted 7/9/2014 12:10 PM (GMT 0)
Unless your uc is in remission (meaning a total absence of symptoms) then it sounds like a very terrible idea to me. If you achieve remission then you should essentially be like you were before uc and do what you will. Otherwise, I would think, you risk pain, increase the likelyhood of tears (the tissue is damaged and frail), bleeding, etc. The rectum is the last to heal.

I think you and he needs to come to terms with the fact you are chronically ill and you may not be able to do what you did before. Remission is possible with uc but not everyone achieves it.
Posted 7/9/2014 1:52 PM (GMT 0)
/www.youtube.com/watch?v=4XM5hbS7GlU
Posted 7/10/2014 1:31 PM (GMT 0)
this is like saying: "you can lift weights with your broken arm",

I too think it's a fetish.
Posted 7/10/2014 2:14 PM (GMT 0)
This is too funny, Ive thought it before but ever of course posted it, but since you guys are on the subject... I'm just glad I'm not gay! I have enough discomfort in my daily life and I can't even stand giving myself an enema, I can't even imagine. Nothing against gay people or people who are into it though of course.
Posted 8/20/2014 2:10 PM (GMT 0)
I personaly haven't tried since being diagnosed. Before I had tried no issues. I had finger play and it just like typical uc fashion each day differs - just if it bothers you stop. Common sense.
Posted 8/20/2014 2:50 PM (GMT 0)
Every time I post a UC study,need to include anal sex in the title somehow.
With almost 25000 views in this thread,sounds like a good way to get people to read studies.

Can you imagine what some of the titles might be.


Gut bacteria controlling anal sex urge, and inflammation.

Anal sex causes rectal abrasions, leading to bacterial translocation into mesenteric lymph nodes.

Anal sex supplies needed nutrients for probiotic bacteria.

Randomized placebo controlled trial of anal sex and inflammatory bowel disease.

63 patients with Crohn's, 150 with non specific colitis, and 75 non IBD people as controls.

Results:

Adverse events 200, 50 non IBD controls developed colitis like symptoms.
Old Mike

LOL

Post Edited (Old Mike) : 8/20/2014 9:48:54 AM (GMT-6)

Posted 8/20/2014 10:02 PM (GMT 0)
Haha - Unreal how many people must type in anal sex in google daily. I can't believe 25,000+ people actually clicked on this.

Would be good for fundraising and awareness though that's for sure.

EDIT:

It;s actually 2,000+ views in the last month or so alone. That's nutz!
Posted 8/21/2014 1:31 AM (GMT 0)
Are we on TMZ or something?
Posted 8/21/2014 1:44 AM (GMT 0)
Now I know why my threads get so few replies. To be fair, my thread titles are so boring, I probably wouldn't click on them either.

Don't think I dare ask what TMZ is.
Posted 8/21/2014 1:49 AM (GMT 0)
It's a celebrity gossip magazine.

I can't imagine doing that with UC. I just picture my sore anus and friable rectum ripping apart and bleeding tons. I have no interest in doing it luckily.
Posted 8/21/2014 1:54 AM (GMT 0)
Oh, boring :-/

Every time something has been put up my rear end (enema, glycerin suppository, a doc's finger), it's been a uniformly grim experience - no exceptions. Nothing on earth would entice me to have anal sex.
Posted 8/21/2014 5:39 AM (GMT 0)
I've read this post, because I was curious about who was well enough to have these kind of concerns. I mean I'd wish I had these kind of concerns in my life right now. ;)

I'm mostly asking my self from time to time if I could take a break and skip an enema.
Posted 9/24/2014 7:15 AM (GMT 0)
I've been well & symptom free for months & have had anal play (toys etc) without any issues so I thought I'd give anal sex another try. Two days later & I'm having an intense flare up. Surely the two are correlated. Was glad to find this info on here!
Posted 9/24/2014 1:20 PM (GMT 0)
Hey jc- I have tried It myself, but yes as long as things are somewhat stable it is ok. just be really careful and go slow. The finger play is nice Cuz you still can experience without as much possible probs with colon.
Posted 8/12/2015 11:17 PM (GMT 0)
It's only worth it going bareback, otherwise it's like drinking non-alcoholic beer or wine. What's the point?
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