Ewa,
Thank You, I do agree that my anxiety is a big part of things. I do know many of the things I go through are due to my anxiety. I dont have pain on the ears or drainage..I do get sinus infections alot and sometimes it drains into my ear. I know the difference in the pain and irritation. The red/hot/itchy I get is outside the ear and on the lobe and slightly above the lobe. Its not from earrings, because I dont wear them. I try to remember if its something I ate but can never put a finger on it. I usually eat just about the same things anymore due to my stomach anyway. I have tried benadryl and it seems like it is not doing any good, and either is the cream my primary doctor gave me. I know that long time UC can lead to inflammation so I dont know if it can go to other areas. I dont know alot on UC and I try not to google everything because it leads to extra anxiety for me. I tried talking to my GI about it and to me he just didnt want to talk about it. I have been working with my regular doctor as well.
I really want to thank all of you for your advice. It helps so much because I have anxiety enough and now I have to worry about yet another symptom. My regular doctor thinks its allergies too. But for the life of me I cannot figure out what it could be.
Also my ears will get red and hot with my anxiety but not itchy with a little bit of bumps like rash.