I am so sorry for those of you being held up by your poor medical service. It happened to me too with my second flare. If you have a UC diagnosis already, please don't wait weeks just for them to look. Get on mesalazines at least if you tolerate them. Rectal meds in particular to at least help with the urgency.
I can say with confidence that I have had years of remission although now thinking about
it, the fatigue never fully lifted so perhaps it was always there a bit for me but please don't let anyone tell you that remission is a myth or impossible.
My first flare age 18 pre the internet (think I'd had it brewing for a few years though) I was given steroid enemas and off I went. Everything cleared up quick, all good. No advice as to what to do or expect, no internet to check things on. Mesalazines were not prescribed routinely for maintenance then. In some ways this was really good. I was back to normal with no urgency unless I drank coffee and had no problems with it for another 4ish years. I am glad that I was ignorant in some ways because I was adventurous in those years and did not suffer from anxiety about
relapse which could have contributed to a relapse. In other ways I am not glad because when I had my next flare and treatment got put off and off, I probably would have been fine if I had been able to explain what I had and got some steroid enemas again instead of ending up with pan colitis and scarring.
After that bad flare, still pre-internet, and with little advice from doctors, I went off and lived a life full of travel again. I put up with a terrible flare once over a period of 18 months as was living in a country with little medical help at that time. Reading this forum some might think you'd never recover properly from a flare like that, I did though, and had a lot of years with only mild symptoms no worse than those of someone with a bad case of IBS.
These last two years have been my worst, probably due to exacerbation after c diff but I am almost in remission now, although suffering bad side effects from thioprines that are lasting beyond having given up the drugs...my GI though is not optimistic that remission has been achieved this time.
The net is a double edged sword. I am so glad to be able to share with others as so few understand how the disease is to live with. I am reassured by the lack of any common diet cure that I am not doing something "wrong". I enjoy reading about
all the new research although it if frustrating that it is all "so near yet so far". Some tips on here are really helpful. However, I don't think I'd have felt so free and easy about
what I could do in life if I'd have been a part of all this aged 18.
oh, and I'm amazed by how high my post count is on here. Doesn't feel like I have talked that much! I do remember though when on steroids I was posting non-stop