HA! YOU ARE BUSTED STUD!!! NOW i'm sure you're him Youshipped. But you are behaving very nicely I must say, in a relative way that is.
I'm zengrrl because that has been my big spiritual quest for over 16 years now, to the point of living in a Japanese monastery for nearly 3 years. So I get kinda feisty when people say UC is "all in your head" or "brought on by stress".... or that meditation can cure it.
Nice to know you folks.