Posted 3/28/2016 5:37 PM (GMT 0)
Long overdue update....
I had a total colectomy on November 13, 2015. Although the surgery wasn't easy, it has BY FAR been the BEST decision I have EVER made regarding this wretched disease...so far. There are many, many negatives posted on blog sites, mostly because people need a place to vent and release and find support, however, there can be positives as well and I hope I can be a positive.
I looked to many forums before I had surgery to seek the support of those that had been before me. I think this is helpful because then you sort of know what to expect....the things the doctor doesn't necessarily tell you because he or she hasn't lived through it. There is no better resource than fellow UC sufferers.
Here is my story so far:
You can read my previous posts for my state before surgery but long story short, I was in bad condition. I went into surgery with a hemoglobin hanging around 9.0-ish (only because I was having weekly IV infusions to keep it there). They put me on the schedule pretty quick, as in, they called me on Wednesday to have surgery on Friday because my condition seemed to be deteriorating rapidly.
Keep in mind, I hesitated having this surgery for several reasons: 1) the bag was a devastating thought to me 2) the chance of j-pouch failure 3) I have never needed a transfusion, so how bad could I be 4) my whole colon was not effected, so I couldn't be as sick as others. Well, needless to say, surgery happened. My friend put me to sleep and kept an eye on things for me, she said it was nasty and needed to come out. I avoided a blood transfusion but they were ready to give it with an extra IV and all in all, everything was okay! The surgery took about 4 1/2 hours. I don't remember anything until I woke up in my room later in the day. I was not in any pain. The only incision site I have is where they pulled the ileostomy through, my surgeon was AMAZING!
My one and only question I had to every person who came in my room was, "did it need to come out?" My biggest fear was doing all of this for nothing, even though I knew in my gut that is wasn't.
Here is the kicker...
When I asked my surgeon that same question he said, it had to come out, you were only about a week or maybe two away from perforation. W-O-W!! Folks, for those of you who do not know the ramifications of a perforation, it is terrible. Either I would not have survived that OR I would have spent a very long time in ICU with a significant amount of support. Someone was watching out for me.
After surgery, I stayed in the hospital 3 days and went home. I was able to eat soft foods, but I think I went a little too fast. I did end up about a week later in the hospital with a bowel obstruction. It started with vomiting, but it was weird, it wasn't like normal vomiting with cold sweats and stomach hurting, it was just simply, it had to come back up. Vomiting is a big red flag post surgery...I ended up in the ER with two IVs and 5 liters of fluid to re-hydrate me. DEHYDRATION with this surgery is NO JOKE my friends. I had a nasogastric tube that stayed in for 4 days and spent about a week in the hospital all in all, but no surgery at that time.
Even with the bowel obstruction, I would do it all over again. I cannot tell you how my life has changed. I have not taken a single medication (except Singulair for allergies) since the day I had surgery. It is all gone. No prednisone, no Imuran, no Remicade, no Humira, no Entyvio, no suppositories, no enemas, no NOTHING!! It feels amazing!
I was very weak after surgery and it took a good 4 weeks before I felt like I was starting to get back to normal. It is okay, take it slow, nobody is asking for a hero. I laid in bed a lot the first 3-4 weeks, that is okay too. I got tired for the first couple of months post-surgery, who cares?!?! I slowly started recovering, my body made 3 pints of blood on its own.
I wasn't very good at the ileostomy bags at first, but I got better thanks to YouTube. LOL! I have many funny ileostomy bag disasters to tell...and that is exactly what they are...funny!
The bag has been a NON-ISSUE...so, if anyone of you is considering not doing surgery because of the bag, I was there, don't do that to yourself. I actually do not mind the bag at all, my kids decorate them with permanent marker and they are adorable. I cannot put into words how nice it has been to not have to stop at every bathroom, to not even care if there is a bathroom around or not, and to not worry about soiling myself and my clothes (unless you have the occasional bag malfunction, but like I said, you'll get better).
I have rid myself of all the medications I was pumping into my body for 14 years, my hair is getting thicker, my skin is clearer. I feel like a person again. I dropped a lot of weight, including all my prednisone puffiness, YAY! I knew that would happen because the surgeon warned me ahead of time. Here is how weight loss went: I was lingering around 145-150 lbs before I was getting really sick, when I started to get really sick I was about 129 lbs with sallow, grey skin and thinning hair. After surgery I dropped another 10 lbs +/- and now fluctuate between 118-121 lbs. It is really weird, I go to bed at 121 lbs and wake up at 118 lbs because of how much fluid this temporary ileostomy dumps over night.
That is the one thing you must watch and be vigilant with is fluids. You have to drink all day with a temporary diverting ileostomy (the ileostomy you have while your j-pouch is healing). It will excrete fluid whether you are eating or drinking or not, so you will become dehydrated quickly. G2 gatorade and water are my new best friends!
Here I am, I will be going to surgery this Wednesday, March 30th (4 1/2 months later) to have my ileostomy reversal surgery and start putting that j-pouch to use. I am not expecting it to be roses and butterflies, I know I have another hurdle coming. However, I am no longer afraid of the j-pouch failing because I would be perfectly fine with a permanent ileostomy, which is something I never would have thought I would have heard myself say, EVER.
So, thanks to info I have gotten from others on this forum, bring on the butt burn....I'm READY!
If I can help at least one person going through this, I will be a happy happy camper because the worst part was not having someone to talk me through it who understood. So, please, if you have any questions please do not hesitate to contact me.
Amy