i bet you would get more response on j-pouch.org, or another board, with more active pouchers. i would definitely have a csection if I were having a baby, so I see what you mean about
feeling uncomfortable with the doctor being someone lackadaisical about
your care. It is a big consideration, and perhaps we are being overly cautious, but you need to feel confident that you're getting the best level of care for you. i think the decision to switch to the hospital where your surgeon is was a good one. Beyond that, I think i would wait and see what she says about
recommendations. I think you're doing everything right.
It feels like you've been pregnant for a long time!