Expecting226, I totally agree with you. And I think about
that drug you're referring to all the time (can't remember the name either). Made everyone sterile I think. And there was another one for morning sickness that caused immediate birth defects too (loritimide maybe?). However, have you ever looked at stuff you're eating? I did the SCD for 2 years (very successfully till it totally flopped on me) and it is AMAZING what is in our foods! And that's just the ones that atually have the ingredients listed. So while I am nervous about
conceiving on a drug, we've all conceived on drugs, we just didn't realize it. What will those do to our kids (and us) 30 years down the line? What about
all the pesticides on the veggies? I saw a news spot where they tested people for different chemicals in their blood (from pollutions, etc) and everyone had at least 90 different chemicals in their bodies!
I did do a lot of reading from people who have btdt, and it seems like people are having healthy babies and nursing them on imuran and remicade. Remicade is actually a class B drug, which is what tylenol is isn't it? I asked my pedi about a new baby being on immunosuppressants through me and she said it shouldn't be a problem to nurse. I 100% agree that drug free is better, but there are so many babies now that have problems that were "drug free". With all the reading, I only came across one person who thought imuran might have been the problem. She m/c at 5 months with her 2nd and then a year later her first child was dx with autism. Well, it seems like these days it's like winning the lottery for your kid not to be ADHD or autistic, or some other label.
I'm definately not trying to belittle this issue by any means, but there are tons of people having babies on it, and we won't know the long term effects of just living today, let alone with the drug. I hate that we have to trial and error to find out. I'm glad there were people before me that figured it out, but I'm also terribly sad too. :(
Fosterdad, I think that's a terrific idea. I just met a guy who was finishing up some remicade b/c his UC gave him a big ulcer on his leg. He finally just had an ilieostomy (sp) and he said it was by far the best choice he's made. At 8 weeks out he said he felt better than he had in years.