I do get TOM flares, regularly, & I just wait them out- they never get worse, it's a couple of days of horrendously painful, very soft bm's with blood on them. Not the "dripping into the bowl" variety, just streaks on the tp. And the mucous, gas, etc. But then I get my period & magically go back into my version of remissin. I hate to say it, but it does sound like a flare- I hope things get better! Get those enemas!