Hi Nor_TX,
I have the exact same problem as you. I have periods of constipation now that my flare has slowed down and then I will have a horrible day of bm's that irritate the colon to keep it from healing. I take 2 fiber chews (metamucil or citruscel) a day or will have fiber ensures for breakfast. I also eat fiber cereal bars. It seems to help a little. I drink a ton of water, always have, but that doesn't seem to make much of a difference? I still am not regular but, to be honest, I never have been. I've dealt with constipation since I was a child. If you come up with a solution that works for you, please let me know. ;)