I have no real advice but I was bleeding for well over a year straight. If your only symptom is bleeding, I don't think that is too bad, as long as it is not seriously heavy bleeding. If you have bleeding, D, urgency, cramping and you're running to the toilet, that's a real problem. I don't think you should consider surgery until you're ready. If you want to wait and try some other treatments, you should. You can have surgery any time. If you're losing tons of blood and feel like hell, you may want to consider it sooner than later. I have seen a lot of people here on Remicade that are doing incredibly well.