It definitely wasn't easy for me but I made it through. I've been in remission for quite some time thank heavens, but the year or so I was in a constant flare was pure misery. Some mornings I couldn't even talk to people until after 10 or 11:00 in the morning. Other days I was okay. I just had to be close to the bathroom, and knew where the less used facilities were on bad days. I even knew where the ladies rooms were that had couches to rest on if I needed. You might even consider wearing adult protection. Good luck, and I don't think I officially welcome you to HealingWell! So, welcome aboard! ;-)