BITW...all your worrying won't change the facts of what you have. The best thing to do is what you're doing...be aware, take your meds, lessen stress by doing the research, etc. Not everyone has fistulas, etc.
I have a friend who has fistulising CD...she is amazing and deals with grace. She's had multiple surgeries, but the last two have been the most helpful for her. She has a great doctor as well.
I know for sure I wouldn't be able to deal as she has...but I don't know since I don't have what she has.
The permanent ileostomy is always an option, or even a temporary one to allow healing....but you're not at that point or even to say you ever will.
It definitely sounds like CD, but it also sounds like all is controlled. We all search for the balance...not necessarily perfection.
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MyUC....The thread may have gotten slightly off-topic, but still relevant. Diagnosis is difficult because of the variables...and not all assumed that one test can confirm. It's more complicated than that.
Yes, it's a great environment here...even talking butts.
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