Hi Songlady. I didn't know if anyone would remember me :)
Thankfully son did great his first year of college. I was really hard on me, though :) Thankfully we have a wonderful university here in town with a very strong engineering program. Son is in a Fraternity and lived there. I barely saw him the first semester with pledging and all that that involved (cough...hazing). Thankfully he made it through all that without flaring. He didn't flare until the last 5 weeks of school. Second semester I got to see him sometimes weekly, but usually only for about
5 mins.
Before he left for school, I bought a couple months worth of those weekly pill containers and would fill them ahead of time. It worked really well. Also what worked in our situation was that I have a key to his Jeep so we were able to trade out empties for refilled ones every few weeks. It also worked well for helping him out with his laundry, LOL. about
weekly I would get a text telling me there was laundry in his car. I'd pick it up and return it the next day.
Academically he did great!! He is a Chemical Engineer/Bio-medical major. He got a 4.0 the first semester and a 3.8 this semester (president's and dean's honor rolls). He made top three freshman Greek men (out of about
600-700 young men). He's been asked to be an engineering success coach for the eng dept next year. He made the top 10 pledge members in his Frat house. Was chosen to be on the Student Foundation (only choose 50 from the whole campus) and then was appointed to the executive board. That's all I can think of off the top of my head - can you tell I am a proud Momma??
I would have like to have put a disability plan in place, but he said no. I was so nervous about
the bathroom situation at the Frat house - communal bathroom!!! NO stalls, just a row of toilets. It didn't seem to bother him. Feel free to ask any other questions you might have.
One thing I will recommend - make sure he signs releases with his doctors so that they can communicate with you on his behalf.
What drugs does your son take for his UC?
Is he your oldest child. I remember this time last year how bittersweet it all was. So much happy and sad! Then when he moved out, the first few days when I would pass his room in the morning when I first got up, it would hit me that he didn't live here anymore. I lost my Dad just before that so it just seemed like a time of goodbyes that I wasn't ready to make.
Write me anytime. I'd love to keep in touch since we have so much in common!!
I feel bad that I avoid this board when things are going well, but then only come around when I need support - kind of selfish, but with two kids with this, when times are good, I have to take a step away and at least for the time being pretend that life if just fine.
Julie
Post Edited (keylime) : 5/13/2011 6:50:17 AM (GMT-6)