Permanent Ileostomy after age 60

Need input from anyone over the age of 50 to 60 who has had this type surgery.

Some considerations / questions are:  number of 'stools' a day after surgery

                                                             do you return to your 'normal' level of activity

                                                             self-image problems

 Any input would be greatly appreciated.

  J-Pouch considered, but at my age may be only a 'temp' fix due to musculature of rectal area. Want to avoid unnecessary surgeries if possible.