External hemmies would hurt as you describe Max....I've had a few that caused throbbing down my butt cheek and into my leg. omg, it always caught me off guard when it happened.
If you've taken a look-see, it's like BBS...blue butt syndrome..lol. Definitely a colour change when it happens. And the pain will radiate from it depending on what nerves the inflamed tissue are affecting. I've had some that radiated upward to my tailbone as well. ugh.
Put steroid cream on it at this point...a few times a day for 3 anyway. It will subside.
But keep an eye on it when it happens again...not to say that an abscess cannot happen at the same time.
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