notsosicklygirl said...
Wow, all i can say is that some of you are lucky your UC is so mild. A flare for me could end in surgery. I never know if there is going to be an end and it's debilitating physically. I understand why they don't give people disability for UC considering it seems like for a good number of people, it's no worse than a cold. A cold is so insignificant for me. I go to work, go shopping, do all my normal stuff. I don't even know what a flu is but I am sure i've had one and just called it a cold. I always feel pretty crappy so maybe my tolerance for misery is higher.
Can't help but agree with this post, tbh. I used to get well wound up by relatives who spent 15 minutes straight moaning about
their sodding cold and how awful it was. In fact if I stop and think about
it, I still get wound up by it. Basically, I was flaring for 13 years straight without a single break. Admittedly in the very eary days it was also very mild: just diarrhoea without any pain, fever, etc. But as the disease progressed, I became more ill. Much much more ill than if I'd just had a cold. And that lasted for many years. Even during the periods of relative respite, I was still often more ill, feverish, and in pain than anyone would be with just a cold. And yet I didn't get the oodles of sympathy that somebody moaning about
their sodding cold for 15 minutes straight would get. I got virtually no sympathy or recognition, which makes me think I did my disease all wrong: I should have moaned about
it in public constantly instead of stoically trying to be "normal".