DMC2011 said...
This has been the best, open and honest thread I have ever read here!
Haha I didn't intend on it getting as many replies as it has. I simply wanted to know some no BS answers. Like I've said here earlier: I know the J-pouch is 95% successful but does that mean 95% of the people are happy with the decision?
In any case, I'm glad someone else is getting something out of it too!
ks1905 said...
I would think that you'd probably want it closed and removed at some point since you are young, it could become an issue later on in life. The removal and closure surgery would be a similar recovery time to a j-pouch(step-2) surgery. You would need the additional time for the takedown (step-3) and adjustment period for the j-pouch.
You probably would want to have the surgery sooner than later because of the weakening sphincter issue, I think it is more of an issue at the 3-6 year mark of not using it. You would want to have your sphincter's strength tested prior to your decision.
You should find a very experienced J-pouch surgeon because that definitely increases your odds of success which causes the debates about the statistical outcomes.
Hmm. Thank you. This coming March will be three years with my ileostomy. I will talk to my surgeon soon then. I have an incredible surgeon whom I like a lot and have a good relationship with. Maybe I can find numbers that are directly tied to him regarding the success/happiness of his j-pouch patients.
NiceCupOfTea said...
No worries! I agree about it being almost impossible to find actual unbiased numbers for j-pouch surgery. Those numbers just seem so much more believable to me - obviously that's a subjective judgement in itself, but still.
Sorry, I can see now how that sentence could be interpreted to mean the exact opposite of what I meant :-/ I meant I won't be one of the ones sticking it out with a poor outcome - I will go back to having an ileostomy if this doesn't get any better. iPoop's basic biography is right: I had Crohn's; had a subtotal colectomy with 90% of my colon removed (only my rectum and part of my sigmoid were kept); had an ileostomy for 2 and a half years; then finally had it reversed in July of this year. Technically I actually have an ileosigmoid anastomosis, but for some reason everyone else calls it an ileorectal anastomosis, including my surgeon and GI, so I do too.
Physically I did well with an ileostomy, but mentally I really struggled, especially in the first year. I won't pretend otherwise: I hated having an ileostomy and resented it. But after that first year, things did get easier. By the second year, I was completely adapted to having an ileostomy. But even before I had my first operation, I knew about the possibility of being reconnected: my surgeon had told me about it. But unlike with j-pouch folks, she wouldn't do it a few months after surgery - I'm not really sure why. Maybe she wanted to be sure the Crohn's wouldn't come straight back first. And indeed in 2 and a half years it didn't come back. Until - you guessed it - straight after my 2nd surgery
I've just had an MRI scan, so hopefully in a week I'll know more. I won't make any decisions about treatment or surgery without knowing what's going on internally first.
Thank you for your input. Like I said in my original post, I want to WANT my ileostomy since I am healthy able to doing everything I could pre-surgery/pre-UC so it is reassuring to me to see someone who prefers the ileostomy.
I am not ruling out the j-pouch surgery at all. But I think going forward, keeping the ostomy provides a black-and-white-ness that my life hasn't had since getting UC. Everything with being sick and on however many medicines has been so grey. Deciding to keep my ostomy would be one decision/one surgery as opposed to two or three more surgeries and when I'm all healed, is my life OK?
I worry that deciding to get the j-pouch risks prolonging this seesaw I've been on with UC whereas keeping my ostomy is it. That's my life going forward and I can truly know what the future holds for me as far as my health.