In the end, it's all about
quality of life and many here have a great one post-uc. Certainly try xeljanz, and research your surgery options, just in case you ultimately need them.
Often when we fear something, it is because we do not truly understand it. It's very easy to make a monster out of an unexpected sound outside when we're in bed and it's dark outside. However, we turn an outside light on, and look outside only to find we forgot to latch a gate and it's knocking against the fence in the wind (now that's some exorcism right there; demon *poof* gone)
Same goes with surgery. With an IPAA (commonly known as a j-pouch), the end result is you can sit and poop as you do now. There's no more inflammation and therefore no more urgency. You can hold a poop for 1/2 an hour, an hour, or even hours as you did befoer you had an UC (something impossible during a sustained UC flare up). You're done with doctors, medications, and even unexpected flares are impossible. If anything is exorcised, it's that evil large intestine that has been belligerent, insufferable, making our lives miserable, and beyond saving (a true demon if there truly was one lol).
Is surgery hard, is there pain, does it take a number of months to recover? Yes, absolutely. There's short term inconvenience for long term gain. It's not risk free, there's risks as there is with any surgery. Just find out the actual odds of adverse events from a surgery, rather than assume they are large (hint they are actually quite small). I'd do your homework. Even consider a no-obligation consultation with a colorectal surgeon who does IPAA's, a simple question and answer session where you ask what concerns you and the surgeon will give you honest answers (what adverse reactions could happen and their odds?, How long will recover take?, etc.). Knowledge is power, and therefore although you might walk in a little scared but might walk away informed and empowered from better knowing your options (even if you do not ultimately need an IPAA).
Post Edited (iPoop) : 9/10/2018 2:09:57 PM (GMT-6)