Medical marijuana has helped some with some of their symptoms (much like all things UC, it is hit-or-miss).
Here's some info from our resources section on j-pouches:
Surgery is a very tough decision to make. Definitely take your time to meet with a colorectal surgeon or two (or more), read up on articles regarding the procedure -
There are also some good blogs out there that really helped get a handle on what the process is like -