Oona, a great big Welcome from HealingWell!!
I'm very glad to meet you and have you here!! Yes, you are right in some aspects-many women are still not treated as equals at many hospitals. However where I would disagree, is perhaps where you are being seen and treated at! I've never had that ignoring of anything woman syndrome, when it comes to heart disease-they spotted it before I knew I even had it!!
I've had great care in the state of Texas and I wouldn't settle for anything less! When I see my Dr.'s I have a list ready for them! lol They love it-I also write to my Senators and Congressman when necessary for health care. The Heart Hospital that I'm seen at takes women quite seriously and they've done everything they could-when I found a Dr. that didn't think I was doing so hot, and I felt that he'd given up on me (whether that was the case or not) I just switched Dr.'s! Sometimes personalities clash...they're humans, too.
I'm so very sorry for what you are going through, Oona, but I think you've found the right place here and please, jump in anytime you want or need to!!
Big Hugs, Teri