Dear Heartless,I am saddened to read of your dx and in truth I do not know a lot re this type of myopathy but I have done some research and will post a few links for you.
Cleveland Clinic has the reputation of being the # 1 heart hospital in the USA and I am thinking perhaps they could help you. Right behind them is Mayo Clinic in Rochester. Don't give up in finding the answers you are looking for.
http://www.cardiomyopathy.org/Left-ventricular-noncompaction.html
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3221196/
My prayers are with you and do feel comfortable posting here even if it is just to vent or looking for support.
Wishing you fair winds and following seas,
Kitt