Hi Debra,You never ever need to apologize for asking questions! That's why we're here. Hiccups are a common complaint after surgery, and improve with healing. Some people get them after overfilling their stomach. Stomach surgery is a very common trigger. Irritation of the vagus nerve can cause hiccups. Many members have reported the problem post-op that improves with time. Patience...they are rough, but the problem won't be with your forever.
As far as the back and rib pain you're experiencing, I'd attribute them to the fact that you've been overdoing it in the kitchen! You're just about
two weeks post op, and though it's hard to remember, it was MAJOR surgery.
It's not just your stomach that was affected by this surgery. Your organs were detached and moved to make room for the surgical tools, and your whole body has been disrupted. There will be many pains you'll experience. That's why the "listen to your body" mantra is so important. You now know that what you did was too much, too soon.
In addition to overdoing it, you're in the midst of peak swelling at your wrap site. That swelling can cause a variety of discomforts, including chest pain.
It's too soon to be entertaining! Let others carry the ball for a while. You don't need to be a hero! Baby yourself.
Here's a link another member shared here on HW regarding a hiccup remedy that worked for him. I can't vouch for it's effectiveness, but maybe it'll help:
forums.heartburn-help.com/showthread.php?8608-Temporary-Cure-for-post-Fundo-HiccupsI don't think that adding soft foods is the cause of your problems. Be sure to always chew, chew, chew anything you eat. You'll do fine.
Have fun at your get-together, but don't work too hard! Let others wait on you!
Happy healing,
Denise