jenagade said...
LAWCHICK said...
jenagade said...
LAWCHICK, absolutely she should have offered some nasal anesthetic (tastes horrible though :S), getting the tube in for me was the worse bit because I have small nostrils and the opening to my sinuses on the side they tried first was too small for the tube to fit through so it did a bit of damage while he was trying to force it through. What I'm saying is that there is def a chance it did some damage but it wont be permanent, I had a ph test done as well and the continuous tugging from that exacerbated things but my nose was all better again after about a week.
The problem with tests being performed by technicians is unlike having it done by your specialist like I did, you are having it done by someone who does this same test all day every day, and in the case of this, dealing with a lot of people who are freaking out and making things difficult. Yes they should be more compassionate about it, its not a nice test and a lot of the problem with it, for me at least, was not knowing exactly what to expect and getting freaked out that I might vomit. Keep in mind though it gets old really fast for them, and sometimes they will get impatient, in fact as terrible as it sounds I have had nurse friends of mine say that its quite common for patients to get treated worse the worse you act, if you are freaking out and being irrational you're not going to get the response you need from the technician. If they see you are at least making an effort to try and relax yourself they will in general be a lot more forgiving and gentle. Don't forget these are humans too, its not nice for them having to deal with hysterical patients especially in cases like these where they can't offer anything to help them to relax and the patients aren't trying to keep themselves calm.
I cannot stress enough how important diaphragmatic breathing is during this test especially during the insertion because it affects your sympathetic nervous system and helps you to relax, your heart might still be racing a mile an hour, and you might still feel terrified but it will physically relax your muscles which will make it easier to pass the tube through.
I hate to be the bad guy here, and I certainly don't want to make you feel worse than you already do, I've been following your story on these forums its obvious you've been turfed around a lot and you're not getting any progress. Do you think that your attitude or state of mind at appointments might be clouding what is going on? What I mean is are you going into these things expecting the worse i.e. expecting that a new specialist is going to be mean or try to tell you something that you know its not? Because people are going to naturally be defensive if they feel you've come in with a chip on your shoulder.
Its also really important to keep in mind that even doctors who work at the same practice will not have the exact same knowledge about you and they will probably all initially come to different conclusions about your diagnosis until they have more information, so while something might seem totally obvious to you, there could be some symptom or something which happens so often you just don't even think to mention it now that could be what the new dr is missing to make a better diagnosis.
Sorry to sound so negative, I really do feel for you because I'm going through this sort of thing too and in the past have done everything I've just said, and it really does have a huge impact on how people will respond to you. Its not that you or I or any of us are bad people when we get upset or frustrated because I think with what we are all having to deal with its totally understandable, its that the medical staff we have to deal with are there to do a specific job and it all comes down to each individual persons nature as to how they will react to you.
At the end of the day you're the patient, you're suffering and they know that, but you don't know what their story is or whats going on with them and a bit of compassion from you might garner a bit of compassion from them too. Or they might just be jerks in which case you should just let that gag reflex do what it does best and leave them to clean up the mess.
Well first off I wasn't in hysterics I was basically in the mood anyone would be in when they are about
to have a tube shoved up their nose and down their throat. When I asked simple questions like about
the nasal anesthetic or about
the vomiting she was dismissive and cold. I'm all for compassion for others but quit frankly I don't care what she had going on that day I was about
to have a terrifying test done to me anyways and there is no excuse to be rude to a patient. I work in personal injury law I have to hear people complain about
some of the most tiny injuries even telling me I don't know what it's like to be in pain and I still listen to them and am kind even though I feel like saying I'm in worse shape then you are at times.
I don't have a chip on my shoulder I unfourtantly have an autoimmune disease that many Drs dont take seriously because the lab results are not always 100 percent concrete. Many Drs are intimidated by what they don't understand which leads them to be dismissive towards the patient.
Fact is there are a lot of crappy Drs out there just like there are a lot of crappy lawyers or waitresses or whatever the profession. I have met some amazing docs though so don't get me wrong I do not dislike them but this lady took the cake. This wasn't my new gastro either I really like my new gastro she is a sweet heart this was another doc who performed the test at the office.
My throat has been in pain since the procedure and I've been short of breathe I may have to get checked out because she was so rough with that tube I wouldn't be surprised if she damaged something.There was no need to get defensive, I wasn't accusing you of being hysterical at all I was merely asking questions. If you note most of what I said was in support.
Hopefully you can find someone who can get this test done for you.Wasn't really defensive just wanted to point out I wasn't freaking out, you did mention about
how dealing with patients who are freaking out gets old for them quick. Also it's not really my additude I just have a lot of autoimmune stuff going on that many dr's do not understand making it very difficult and frustrating for me. Sorry but you kind of did sound negative like you said although I'm sure that wasn't your intention so really I'm not offended at all so please don't think that. This has just been a very difficult time for me, so maybe I am alittle more sensitive I don't know. Anyways I just found out through labs my immune system is attacking my thyroid. I am wondering if this is causing my throat issues. This was after being told two weeks ago that my blood work was fine. Thankfully my dr went back and reviewed it again.
Post Edited (LAWCHICK) : 10/7/2015 12:57:00 AM (GMT-6)