Warning:I'm VERY angry!May be trigger for some

Though my Sister Friend and I aren't Blood related,I think of her as the big Sister I no longer have.What hurts her hurts me.

She has been sick past couple of Day's.She has a Liver Disease that occasionally makes her Liver quiver and Abdomen fill with Fluid.When this happens it presses against her Diaphragm and Spine making it difficult to breathe and causing her Back to hurt.

Anyway she told me her Husband (who is a LOSER from LOOSERVILLE) came in from Work few Mornings ago and helped himself to sex whilst she was sleeping and bloated like a 9 Month Pregnant Woman ready to deliver an Elephant.

She told me it's her Wifely duties.I told her NO it's NOT!He violated her and to me it's Rape.

He has ED,so sex is on HIS terms,it's the same position everytime,it is always about pleasing him( EDIT)  when he doesn't enjoy to begin with and he won't go to Doctor and get help for his "problem".

She told me knowing he can't perform.Most of the time he does this 20 minutes before he leaves for Work.

I don't know why she would want him to touch her,but then I also understand she  

He doesn't help out around the House (pay bills,make repairs etc).He has now decided if he writes tons of hot Checks he won't have to give her Money to pay Bills.

He goes 4 Day's at a time without bathing,she told me his Underwear is filthy (he doesn't change everyday,but changes those Socks),he doesn't Brush his Teeth (and when he does he uses HER Toothbrush).I gave her a new Toothbrush that she hides in the other Bathroom.

He hates her Kids and Grandkids and doesn't want them over..he snaps and is hateful towards all of them..all he does is work 8 hours per Night in a cool environment at a sit down job,but sleeps all Day including his Day's off.He is one of these "lay in Bed and watch Television" types.

I have done everything even pleaded and begged she kick him out and file for Divorce.She told me she will in her own timing and she can't live with guilt.If she kicks him out right now she will sink financially (she is anyway).

I am SO MAD,I could walk over there and 

YOU get the picture........

Hun

Due to the fact we have 13 yr olds on this site I had to edit some of your post......

If you need an explanation as to why in more detail plz do email me okay

Thanks .LYN

Post Edited By Moderator (Howlyncat) : 6/23/2008 6:29:57 AM (GMT-6)

Dejavu,

I love and care about her very much,however get frustrated because she complains to me and her other Friends about her sufferings and situation,yet won't do anything to change it.

I'm going to explain the best I can about what is going on.

Latter 2005 she met a Man from another Country on the internet.She forked out a ton of Money (Air-fare,gave him extra Money to buy things he would need for his visit,paid all fees for wiring papers/documents and he helped himself to her Credit Card) so he could come for a visit.

When he went for his first Visa interview the Consular Officer denied him a Tourist Visa because he didn't produce enough documentation that proved ties to his Homeland and would return after the length of his stay.

The CO gave him a second interview appointment.Before he returned a vicious Australian Woman who the Guy angered "dobbed" him in to the US Embassy,so when he returned the CO stamped denied.

Since he couldn't come to US my Sister Friend bought fare for the both of them to meet in Canada.On his way to Canada instead of getting a Transit Visa to enter US he decided to stay in Australia and have a little Holiday (on my Sister's Money) with a Woman he met before my Sister.

Because of the debt he placed her in she had to remortgaged both her Homes and Vehicle.Having to pay Mortgage and a Car payment she did not previously have makes it very hard to pay Utilities,buy Food and other necessities.

Early 2005 she met a Man on the Internet from another State.They chit-chatted,exchanged Music and spent a lot of time together.After awhile they began having deeper feelings for each other,but ran for being scared.

She met her current Husband a little later and ran straight into his Arms and now has found herself in a much deeper mess.

She is taking all this crap from him because she is hoping he will get her out of the financial mess that another Man placed her in.

He walked and abandoned her latter September.When he left she took off for the Guy she ran from.She stayed 1 Month and returned here and she and her Husband went back together.She and the Man from another State are going at it and preparing to be together again secretly behind her Husband's Back.