Leah,
IMHO (in my honest opinion) .25 MG isn't that much,but what affects one might not affect the other.
When I was prescribed .25,I didn't notice any signs of sleepiness or heaviness and it didn't help because it wasn't high enough dosage for me.
I've taken 1 MG,0.5 MG,0.25 MG and am now taking 2 MG Bar Xanax three times per Day,but I'm a big Gal and going through a very rough patch.
To answer your questions..
1. I think it's an individual thing..
2. It HELPED and HELPS me to drive or do other things I couldn't previously do.It gives me courage to try..if I didn't have my Xanax I'd still be stuck to this House!
3. I didn't have a single problem weaning from Xanax when I took it before..I agree with your Doctor..if your taking something that helps why come off it?You could wind up at square one again.It happened to me!
I have a Friend who has taken Xanax Daily for 24 Years..your Doctor needed a good kick in the Arse.Just because some are addicted to Xanax doesn't mean all are..Some Doctor's need to be overlooked!
Best,
Sydnee
P.S. PLEASE don't be afraid of something that will HELP you!