Trazadone for me, too, for about 7 years now. 100mg/night. I also take 2mg. Klonapin (which is addictive, but I haven't had a problem with that and don't take all I am supposed to take during the day unless I'm having panic/PTSD symptoms.
I've tried Xanax and for my body type/structure or whatever it is that makes me tick - it makes me feel very loopy and almost scared when I was on it for awhile.
Trazadone is an anti-depressant that helps with anxiety and is taken only at night because of how it helps you get to sleep and stay asleep (ahhhhhhhhh). It's really nice to be able to sleep when you've not been able to for years..
If you try it, let us know how it works for you!!
Julie O'