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Posted Today 12:13 AM (GMT 0)
my boyfriend says im crazy he says it all the time and i never thought so until he kept saying it! and now he ignored me all day because i was concerned about him and i had a severe anxiety attack and he doesnt care!!! why?? why do ppl put ppl thru this? how ccan some ppl be s cluless and selfish to others feelings? i cant take it anymore! its just not fair to me or my son! i just dont know how to stop worrying about it and wondering where my bf is and what i did wrong to deserve this?
Posted Today 2:44 PM (GMT 0)
You more than likely did nothing wrong, and to me at least sounds like your boyfriend is just trying to manipulate you. Nobody can make you feel bad/crazy unless you let them. I think you need to think about whats best for you and your son and go from there. Maybe this boyfriend isn't the person for you. Good luck!
Posted Today 5:44 PM (GMT 0)
Without knowing his side it's hard to judge. Is there anything good he does? Is there anything bad you do? The way you present it makes me simply say, "dump him." But, are there other things you're not telling us that would help us help you. If you both are not using drugs or alcohol (in excess), you both are responsible and hard working, you both are capable of holding down a job and seeking to improve yourself then why would you stay with someone who is cruel to you? Do you think you may have a mental issue which requires drugs bipolar or something? Why do you think you have the panic attacks? Is it some medicatio you're taking or stress or something else?
Posted 12/2/2009 9:14 PM (GMT 0)
im not on meds, and he does do good things, we are both very stressed due to finacial problems and me trying to juggle being a mom, working and going to college, its tough... i think we are both better off without e/o as we have too much of our own stuff going on to focus on e/o... yes i do bad things too, i have serious trust and jealousy issues, due to insecurities in myself and i have no idea why im having the panic attacks? i am schedualed to see a doctor 2mo to ask some questions... thank you for your replies, it helps to see things from other point of views :)
Posted 12/3/2009 2:45 PM (GMT 0)
I totally agree with Nanners on this...hoping your doc will listen just be very honest and open imho thats the best way....keep us posted....lyn

Post Edited By Moderator (Nanners) : 12/3/2009 8:35:00 AM (GMT-7)

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