Help, Husband complains Im terrible*

I was diagnosed in 09 w/fibromyalgia and Cfs. I also have anxiety & asthma.

I am medicated and I do take medication for the CFS/FMS/Asthma but not

the Anxiety.

Recently in the past two yrs my husband has expressed I have worsened w/

the "I am terrible w/yelling, being hasty and abrupt (impatient)"...

For one thing I do joke about being impatient and that all Italians are lol.

But I know that I've noticed things that I do are /were things that as a child

my own mother would do as well...And she has bad bad nerves. She was only

years later after having menopause late 90s' , to be diagnosed w/Anxiety.

She is medicated and faaaaaaaaaaaar more calmer now that she ever was!

I am not. But I can control my feelings emotions and anxiety at least I'd like to

think I do.

I feel my husband is unwilling to be patient w/my FMS /CFS but yet he is with

my asthma. Its like he only can understand things on his own level...w/out

educating himself at all. To which I always email him things from online to read.

I try! Im willing open to suggestions.

Thanks