Hi, I am new here and I no longer have anxiety. I was an anxiety sufferer for 10 years. I know what you mean with it is harder than it is, because I too read the Lucinda book and I went to her seminar and it didn't help me at all. however if you like please go to my profile because I wrote a reply of which I think may help you. It is a small story of how I fought anxiety with no drugs.