Great topic !I will have to say my number one way to relax is to read books - I can almost always find relaxation in a good book and right now I am reading the brand new John Sandford book, Stolen Prey. I do not read self-help books for relaxation but only novels.
I am another medved, vacations are awesome for me as during the time away I have no worries and no obligations to clean house, see Drs., worry about bills etc. I don't even have to make my bed !
Kitt