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Posted 6/18/2013 4:01 PM (GMT 0)
I got my stuff out of friend's house when he was out of town. This isn't the 1st time I have left him. Why can't I realize once & for all that I am unlovable, that I am just a waste of time for everyone? I am just to be used & thrown away like a piece of garbage?? Why was i even born in the 1st place? I have zero talents. I hear about people having car accidents & dying. I have had 3 rollovers & only had a little back pain. Whyam I kept alive when there are people much more talented, prettier dying everyday. It doesn't make any sense!
Posted 6/18/2013 5:02 PM (GMT 0)
I just needed to vent. Don't need sympathy or anything.
Posted 6/18/2013 5:16 PM (GMT 0)
butterflies76

Hello!  It is good to vent however now that your vent is over, put a positive spin on your feelings.

"I am a good and worthwhile person"

"I hold my head up high"

" I am strong"

"My life has meaning and purpose"

"I have many options and can make wise decisions"

"My life purpose can be whatever I choose it to be"

Please do not let how another person treats you define who you are my friend.

Gentle Hugs,

Kitt

 

Posted 6/18/2013 6:22 PM (GMT 0)
One of my biggest pet peeves is when I am lied to, so why say any of those things u mentioned & lie to myself?
Posted 6/18/2013 7:02 PM (GMT 0)
I think you need to check out the mood gym site from the resources page.
Posted 6/18/2013 8:12 PM (GMT 0)
Sorry, but I don't know how to find that?
Posted 6/18/2013 9:10 PM (GMT 0)
No problem - it's right here:

http://www.moodgym.anu.edu.au/welcome

It helps you identify and work through "warpy thoughts" It may feel a little silly at first, it did to me, but it really does help correct patterns of thinking.

This is from the wealth of resources our kind moderators have compiled for the members of this forum. You can find the other resources here:

https://www.healingwell.com/community/default.aspx?f=9&m=104206

Have a browse, lots of good, accessible, free resources. :)
Posted 6/19/2013 2:33 AM (GMT 0)
Iam not going to feel sorry for you because I have been here before with the whys myself,with truth you did answer your own questions&prbly don't even know it,so let me help you out death&life you hold that power in your mouth God knows what we can take. And everyday blessed to see the sun are even the rain is God way of saying hold on a lil longer,your break through is on the way. For you are stronger&much wiser then you think&you are worth so much,God don't make mistakes,because if he was that kind of God the world wouldn't be here. But it's and so are you&that there says you have reason&anybody that treats you like anything less,remove them with love from your circle/life. Most of all if you done gave more then one chance let it go for you will be better off,take it from someone who knows pain isn't love and you have a right to the best. Time is short so we must not waste it on ppl who don't matter,and ppl will treat you how you let them so let them know respect is key both ways&show with love that you want take anything less&when I say with love you can still have courage to speak up for what is right. In a loving way that will bring light&keep peace in your heart that you tried to react like Jesus would. Blessings to you!
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