Hi Cyrene and welcome!
I know that a lot of members here have trouble being alone. Monophobia is fairly common, and you may want to look up previous threads on this subject by doing a search here. You can do so by clicking on the 'Search' icon upper right on the toolbar, and inputting key words such as 'fear of being alone, ect.
Here is a list of sites for coping skills for anxiety and panic. These are from our Resources (main page, 1st thread) that is full of great information and self-help.
Self Help sites with breathing/relaxation exercises instructions
Panic attack relief exercises:
http://www.healthcentral.com/anxiety/c/73076/34334/breathing-lessons/
http://www.healthyplace.com/
http://www.stress-relief-exercises.com/
http://www.ehow.com/video_4405003_breathing-exercises-panic-attacks.html
http://www.psybersquare.com/anxiety/panic_relax_I
You may also want to explore all of the ideas in your above poll. They all have their place and benefits when it comes to seeking to treat your issues.
Post with us anytime for support. You will always find encouragement and caring here among our members! :)
Talk to you soon,
Scaredy Cat