Merrida,DT said, "So the best medicine would be to not stress over it and try to limit my anxiety and it should go away until I'm anxious again!?"
In response to his question I said I could not promise it would never happen again. I support the practice of accepting anxiety and letting it move through you versus getting stuck in anticipatory anxiety or what-if thinking. It is about letting go.
Letting go means that the individual is not attacking anxiety with all his emotional might. Instead, he is surrendering the battle to a power or force outside himself. This means that there is no battle for the individual involved, and therefore, no emotional resources are required of this person.
In fact, all this person has to do is show up – no action is actually required of him or her other than to keep redirecting his or her thoughts from anxious ones to ones of letting go. For example, instead of thinking, “What if I don’t talk to this person that I want to talk to?,” a person is much better served by thinking, “I’ll just go ahead and talk to this person, and whatever happens, happens.” The attitude of letting go does not care at all about the outcome.
The recipe for success contains the following:
Acceptance - You must accept fear, anxiety and panic.
Courage - You must face the fear without running or avoiding.
Persistence - You must do it over and over as often as possible.
Patience - You must allow time to pass.
Wishing everyone a peaceful day,
Kitt