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Posted 8/29/2014 12:38 AM (GMT 0)
cry i am not coping. have paid out some coin n migration services as i want to desperately be with my fiancee. the reports are extensive, i meet the minimum requirements for the fiancee visa albeit my medical history will go against me. i have a one on one call with an expert with my package and thus i will ask regarding this. money is a big factor as well. geezzzzzz, the fees. the paperwork,.......etc. just overwhelmed. i am remembering my mantra 'slow and steady wins the race'. this is causing a lot of stress, sleepless nights and physical problems. why is everything so expletively hard these days. i need 6 months of funds to show i can support myself, heck it took me a year to save up for my last trip to be with her!!!

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGHHHHHHHH!!!!
cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry

i will remain strong. just need a bit of support. thx for listening and for your care.
Posted 8/29/2014 2:23 AM (GMT 0)
I'm sorry you are struggling right now. I wish I could do or say something more to help but I will pray for you and send healing thoughts your way. Deep breaths! You can do this and the prize at the end of this race will be worth it!!!!
Posted 8/29/2014 3:40 AM (GMT 0)
This really sux and I can see you are frustrated, this is just a silly question, what would
your government do if you two had got married when you were in her country, and then
wanted her to come home with you.
I wish you the very best, I believe you both belong together, I pray Love prevails above all, peace my friend.

Larry ***
Posted 8/29/2014 8:51 AM (GMT 0)
thank you guys. ps larry..........all good. would make no difference, she is petrified of flying. her parents are elderly as well, hence me going over. well applying anyway. as my partner and i both say 'where there is a will there is a way'.
Posted 8/29/2014 4:24 PM (GMT 0)
H.T.

This is one of those things, that when looking back...you will remember it being a pain in the arse...

...but you WILL get through it...and have a good story to tell! :)

Don't let the red tape get you down...you are marrying the love of your life!!

It's gonna happen...just have a few more hoops to jump through firts. (how are your knees holing out, lol!!)

You have us cheering you on. Take care of yourself physically and mentally as you go.:)

S.C.
Posted 8/30/2014 1:13 AM (GMT 0)
much luck and prayers to you
daughter moved to the UK a couple of weeks ago and has stumbled upon many blocks. Keep telling her the road will smooth out- persevere...
Posted 8/30/2014 1:16 AM (GMT 0)
cheers...........i needed that!!! kness ok. thank you very much sc. thank you to you all. :-) love, us.

thx wa. just seen ya post. must have come up just before i hit sent on mine. thanks.
Posted 8/30/2014 3:21 AM (GMT 0)
HT..,
You will get through this little hump and it will seem so small when you are where you want to be.. Wishing you the best of luck and hope everything works out the way you need to..
Posted 8/30/2014 9:23 AM (GMT 0)
:-) :-)
Posted 8/30/2014 1:27 PM (GMT 0)
TC

Wishing you much luck..
Posted 8/31/2014 2:02 AM (GMT 0)
cheers. she will fly to me and break her fear of flying if i do not get approved to be with her. that warms my heart. we love each other................and that is what happens. my mantra comes firmly into place 'slow and steady wins the race'. thx for the support my friends. us.
Posted 8/31/2014 2:14 AM (GMT 0)
VICTORY! good for both of you! peace

Larry ***
Posted 8/31/2014 9:39 AM (GMT 0)
:-)
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