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Posted 3/3/2015 1:22 PM (GMT 0)
Positive prayers please for today we will find out today about my sisters cancer
couldn't sleep last night lots of PVCs and anticipatory anxiety I'm trying to be calm and deep breathing. your support is appreciated. any suggestions for controlling The worry?
Posted 3/3/2015 1:50 PM (GMT 0)
This may sound strange, but maybe welcome your worry and be accepting of it. Today you aren't worrying about a health problem that you don't have, you aren't worrying about panic or PVC's. Today you have a real fear and you should allow yourself that because it's your sister and you love her.

To cope with it when your body feels anxious I would first say to yourself, nothing bad is happening to me, I am simply experiencing anxiety about my sister's tests results. I would also try and bust out all your coping tools! Do some relaxing breathing, maybe a short meditation video, or even if you can just lie down and close your eyes and listen to one of the relaxing music clips that Hibee has posted about. Those really help me.

We are all holding you close and sending warmth, light and healing to your sister.
Posted 3/3/2015 2:54 PM (GMT 0)
I am sending many healing thoughts your way….hope everything goes well.
Posted 3/3/2015 4:32 PM (GMT 0)
Hi Hazel

I am sending positive prayers your way I hope everything goes well.

Hibee
Posted 3/3/2015 6:54 PM (GMT 0)
H.N.

I am of course keeping you, your sister and the whole family lifted up in prayers and postive thoughts right now!

Good 'talking' to you this morning...I wish I could be of more help to you. I am so sorry you are all going through this.

Message me later if you feel up to it...if not, know that you are loved and supported here, and we are wishing the very best news possible.

S.C.
Posted 3/3/2015 7:05 PM (GMT 0)
Big hugs, I hope everything has gone well for your sister and family today x
Posted 3/3/2015 7:07 PM (GMT 0)
i love you guys!!

we are still waiting ugh

sending her good energy. :) whatever happens, we are in it together - all of us. she has a very supportive family.
Posted 3/3/2015 7:58 PM (GMT 0)
Prayers being sent to your sister and family as you are awaiting the results.
Posted 3/3/2015 9:21 PM (GMT 0)
Hugs and prayers to you and your family!
Posted 3/3/2015 11:03 PM (GMT 0)
Sending prayers and wishing best Hazel!
I hope she gets a chance for a treatment and gets better soon.
Posted 3/3/2015 11:18 PM (GMT 0)
stage 4 liver cancer metastasized but it's an unknown origin still pretty bad kind of heartbreaking
Posted 3/4/2015 2:11 AM (GMT 0)
Oh Hazel.....I'm so sorry. Have they got a plan to kick cancer in the behind?
Posted 3/4/2015 2:14 AM (GMT 0)
I think they're starting chemo next week
Posted 3/4/2015 5:42 AM (GMT 0)
Hazel i told you about my soninlaw, he has gone back to work and gained 20lbs, they are looking into
radiation to pinpoint and kill whats left, stay strong girl many are praying for Her and You, Peace

Larry ***
Posted 3/4/2015 10:22 AM (GMT 0)
How old is your sister? My cousin is 87 and has stage 4 leukemia but she is sharp as a tack in her mind and a real fighter....with an even more amazing attitude and has been doing chemo for a year and now doing very well. She is a miracle to all the doctors and staff at the hospital and is now at home feeling great. Attitude and the will to live has a huge effect on how one does through all this and It's amazing what they can do with all kinds of cancer these days, no matter what stage. Another friend was diagnosed with liver cancer 15 years ago and still going strong. So I pray and hope that the same will be the case with your dear sister. Always keep hope.
Posted 3/4/2015 4:52 PM (GMT 0)
HN,

We are praying, and sending thoughts of hope and encouragement as you fight alongside your sis, and act as her support during her treatments.

Come talk with us anytime you need some understanding ears and virtual hugs...we are here.

S.C.
Posted 3/4/2015 5:49 PM (GMT 0)
ok thank you so much you guys for your words of hope and your prayers!!

my sister, kellie, is 40. she has two boys that are 11 and 16 on thursday! :) we are having a party on saturday then for him so i finally get to hug my sis!!! our weather here is okla. is crazy -- raining ice right now and then supposed to be 60 this weekend. :P
Posted 3/4/2015 9:29 PM (GMT 0)
HN,

I am so glad that you get to see your sister this weekend!!

May it be a good visit, filled with only good things...positivity and hope.

My youngest has a friend who is devastatingly sick with Lupus. The medicines that she has to take to supress her immune system and keep the disease in remission have now started to cause her bone tissues to die...it is a very hard situation...

...but to see them together! They wrestle and play fight....it is all I can do to keep from stopping them (for fear of her getting injured), but to them...it is just what they do.

For that time, she and her friend are not thinking about the illness...they are just having a great time.

I wish the same for you...that you just get swept up in having a ball with your family, and that you simply enjoy being together!

S.C.
Posted 3/5/2015 1:01 AM (GMT 0)
Hazelnut,
Keeping you, your sister, and her boys in my prayers. And your entire family.
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