I can't take it anymore.

Deb, to me it sounds as though it's your hubby who needs to be on meds, not you. ;)

Maybe you could slip a little something in his soda the next time he gripes at you. :p

I've threatened my brother with this tactic (makes him laugh and check his attitude at the door).

I prefer this quote but, I have an ornery sense of humor. I hope you find the humor in it too.

"What doesn't kill me does NOT make me stronger. It makes me anxious, b****y, and vulnerable but nobody wants to see that embroidered on a pillow."

:)

Deborah, I am glad you talked to your sis, and started taking action towards the people who worry you!
You are strong and we know you will find a way to overcome troubles.

We are here for you <3