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Posted 6/2/2015 3:28 PM (GMT 0)
Last week I posted about a breakup I went thru...well not a breakup but it ended abruptly because of reasons I cannot state here.

I was in an emotional wreck and felt completely helpless/hopeless.

I have been finally been able to eat well, sleep well (after crying a river and drinking beer..lol), and feel better about myself thanks to those who responded to my post. I really appreciate the support you gave me then.

I feel relieved now actually that it all ended. I am back to my old self now. I think when I was seeing this man, I was not being the real me...like I was trying too hard to please him so he wouldn't be disappointed in me...which was a very unnatural thing to do. If I can't be myself, and feel good about who I really am, what is the point of existing right? Besides, why would I need to change anything about myself to please him? What a stupid thing to do. lol ;) It is so not ME!

I'm not completely healed but I am better.

Couldn't have done it without the support. AngelLisa, I'm talking about you too! :)

THANK YOU.

 

Posted 6/2/2015 3:32 PM (GMT 0)
Mel, you just stated what i was thinking, you must be allowed to be true to yourself, be yourself, then if
someone wants you for a partner all you have to access is, is this person right for me! Peace

Larry ***
Posted 6/2/2015 5:00 PM (GMT 0)
I'm so happy you are feeling better, that makes my heart happy to hear. Yes as Larry said, be true to yourself. If someone can accept us for the real us, then it isn't meant to be. I have NO doubt in my mind that you will find someone that accepts you for you and is your soulmate. It will happen in it's own time, it is not us that determines the time this will happen so don't look for it, just know it will happen. :)
Posted 6/2/2015 5:07 PM (GMT 0)
I'm so happy to hear it.
Posted 6/2/2015 6:27 PM (GMT 0)
Thank you all of you! :)
I wasn't actually looking for anyone or a relationship.
I wasn't interested in commitments.
But it all happened naturally.
Funny thing, you meet people when you are not really looking around I guess.
This person was in a position of power and things were a little 'abnormal' in that sense.

Thank you again for the support. Really appreciate all the encouragement you all have given me.
Posted 6/2/2015 6:29 PM (GMT 0)
As the old saying goes "People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime." Everyone we meet has a reason, we never know what that reason is, sometimes we can see the reason and other times we can't.

I'm so happy you are feeling better and I'm really happy to hear that the support here is helping you, It really is an awesome community.
Posted 6/2/2015 6:38 PM (GMT 0)
AngelLisa,

Thank you so much. Your posts are truly inspirational and thought provoking. Really love reading your comments. Glad you became a mod AngelLisa. :)
Posted 6/2/2015 6:47 PM (GMT 0)
Thank You, I'm happy that you find inspiration in my post, my ultimate goal is to help people but the added plus is that it is helping me with my anxiety, so it's a win win. :)
Posted 6/2/2015 9:32 PM (GMT 0)
Melodee,
It will get better and better every day.
Glad to hear you are on the road to recovery! You got this!!!
Posted 6/3/2015 1:15 AM (GMT 0)
Mel-

I'm glad to hear that your heart is healing and you're feeling better. No matter how brief a relationship, sometimes certain people just make an impact on our lives and it's not easy to look past that.

I hope that you're feeling better and making progress. Any type of loss just stinks and can be so hard to deal with.
Posted 6/3/2015 6:39 AM (GMT 0)
Mel, been there/done that in my first marriage :) I totally understand.
I am so glad that now you feel a lot better and you are recovering.

And thank you, for being a part of HW family and supporting us <3
Posted 6/3/2015 8:07 AM (GMT 0)
Heart broken and go for what feels right.
Posted 6/3/2015 9:00 AM (GMT 0)
Hi Mel

I am pleased to hear you are feeling a lot better you are a valued member and we are always here to support you.

Keep us posted.

Hibee
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