Social anxiety disorder

I was diagnose almost 20 years ago.

People is general always seem to say that i get on their nerves. I try to be as nice as possible to people for them to oversee my shortcomings but 90% of people just shun me.

I get torn apart everywhere i go. Few people even give me a chance. My sister is on the verge of kicking me out. I feel hopeless and don’t have anyone to talk to. I’ve been out of work for two years. Finding a job without social connections is really hard. Especially now, since there are hiring freezes. I’m in school at night. The other students planned to get together online to do tutoring. They wanted to exclude me because i have a 4.0 gpa and that one of the three doesn’t like me.

No matter how old I get i still feel like high school never ended. Ya know what i mean?

Bye,
S2bs

Hi Sucks2bsick,

I am sorry for what you are going through. Do you talk a lot or something? With the title of your post I would think you didn't. Especially if you have social anxiety. What is it that gets on people's nerves?

Everybody has shortcomings. So you are no different than the rest of us. I don't understand why people would shun you. You seem nice to me.

Maybe it is time to find new friends. People who accept others for who they are.

I hope you have a good rest of the day.

Hugs, Karen...

Wow, I guess sister's would be the first to tell you something like that. But I doubt you get on other people's nerves. I am glad you are hungry to learn and don't let anyone stop you from doing that.

So you have a high pitched voice. Nothing wrong with that. I have a couple of friends who are small and have high pitched voices. Doesn't bother me at all unless they talk baby talk to my dog. It gets her excited.

Try not to worry. I think it will blow over. Focus on classes and learning. Keep asking questions, that is how you learn. I wish you the best.

Hugs, Karen...