Obsessive Compulsive Disorder-PLEASE READ

I am not sure if this is the place to write.  I often post on the Crohn's Disease website.  I have been so busy worrying about my 8 year old son that I haven't been able to even worry or think about my problems.  I'll have to start taking care of myself again soon because he needs me now more than ever. 

We recently found out that he and my 3 year old daughter have been sexually abused.  My son feels a huge amt. of guilt for not "saving his sister".(his words) He is now experiencing symptoms of O.C.D.  Each day a new symptom arises.  Lots of hot showers, hand washing, bad, negative repetitive thoughts, and other routine compulsions/obsessions he is using to try to eliminate his anxiety. 

I am writing to just get some advice.  I am doing lots of research.  I haven't found a great counselor that I really like.  So far we haven't tried meds.  If behavioral and cognitive therapy don't work, we will look in to that.  Any advice or input is greatly appreciated.

Thanks.

hey there_

I just want to say how sorry I am. I really don't know much about OCD, but i think a lot of people here do. I hope you get some good advice, and most of all hope that your son can get the help that he needs. Poor little guy :(

I agree with lynn, CBT and finding a therapist that specializes in OCD would be really helpful. Also there is an experience attached to the OCD which is very traumatic, so seeing someone about his guilt and experience would probably be helpful. :(

please keep us posted.
Dan

Dawn,

A parents worst nightmare! When our children are hurting we can feel so helpless but you are definitely doing the right thing by asking for help. I completely agree with Kitt. Finding the right therapist is extremely important but in addition to that (and because we all know that therapy is a process) depending on the severity of your son's symptoms I would definitely contact your Dr. to find out if there is something a child his age could take to help calm his nerves. At least for me, the ability to deal with stress and develope different thought processes to handle feelings like fear and guilt, is hindered greatly by my inability to be still and calm. Good Luck to you and God bless your son and daughter. They WILL overcome this! Especially with a loving and attentive parent like yourself.

Liz