Came to the realization (very painful)

I don't think anyone in my Family knew for she carried the burdens alone.She didn't want my Father to know what her Mother and few Family members were doing to her.

My Mother was torn and grieved by her Mother,her Mother's Sister and one of her own Sister's.They didn't want my Parents together and did everything in their power to split them up.

My Mother's Mother said horrible things about me to my Mother before I was born.

She died at age 29 (1 Week and 4 Day's after my Birth) from a Pulmonary Embolism,but also from grief and heartbreak.

Karma is a b*itch and what goes around comes around.The Sister who was part of the team that set out to destroy has 2 Son's that won't speak to her and she has nothing to show for all her Years of hard work.Her Health has greatly suffered too.

She won't admit what they did or take responsibility for her actions and continues to blame my late Dad and his Family for killing my Mother.Whatever!

It hurts me very much that my Mother suffered when all she wanted was to make a Family and Future life with the Man she loved.

I'm not angry nor do I question God for taking my Mother.I think she accomplished what she was born to do in this life and that was to bring me in the World.

I think she did a wonderful job as did my late Grandmother and Step-Mother who stepped in her place.I like to think I turned out well and I know my Mother would be pleased.

Mary,

They sure do especially when it's uncalled for.Though I wish I knew my Mother I do OK because there is nothing I can do to bring her back.Oh yes she listened to the mean things that were said about me.They hurt her very much and she knew her Mother would never accept me (she didn't).I saw the Woman twice.Both times at Great-Aunt's Funerals.The last time we had contact was in '85.She died Halloween '90.I say the Witches came and got her.She didn't have an easy or pain free death.

(((((((((Kitt)))))))))

I'm very sorry to read you that you too lost your Mother at a very young age.It is a permanent void that will never be filled,but we have to make the most of what is left.

Even if your Father hadn't been in the Car when your Mother was killed,I don't imagine he would have ever gotten over it.

It was all my Dad could do to get out of Bed and go to Work.He had to because he had me to provide and care for.

My Mother was the love of his life and a part of Dad died with her.I can't begin to imagine the grief and pain he carried until they were together again.They being together and this time no one can separate them is the only thing that brings me comfort with Dad's death.

I had a Grandmother who was an Angel on Earth.She was 55 1/2 soon 56 when I was born.She had no hesitations to bring me Home and care for me.

I believe with all my Heart that I was the Baby she and my Grandfather lost.Their Baby was returned to them only in the form of a Granddaughter.

When I was a few Month's old,Dad remarried to a Woman with a Daughter 1 Week older,however the Marriage didn't work.He then remarried 3 Month's shy of my 3rd Birthday to a beautiful Woman.Their Marriage lasted until her death in '03.

I feel blessed that God sent 2 

virtuous Women to stand in my Mother's stead.I couldn't ask for better.

Am very sorry your Step-Mother treated you unwell.Wonder why she accepted your Children as her Grandchildren,yet was Abusive towards you?Did she have Children of her own when your Father Married her.Am sorry if this is a painful question.I mean well.

I don't personally know you,but you seem to be a very kind and thoughtful Woman and your Mother would be very pleased how well you turned out.

God won't put on us more than we can handle.We our survivors and have the strength inside ourselves to overcome whatever is slung our way.

Hugs,

Sydnee

Sydnee,

That is so tragic, I am sorry that you lost the chance to get to know your mother, that is something we should all have. It shows what a wonderful person you are that you don't feel anger, but acceptance. I don't know if I could do that. Kudos to you, and again, I sorry that you have had to go through this.

Lyn,

I am very sorry your fighting Siblings over the Estate.Am going through the very same thing except with Dad's Sister and a Sister in-law.

Since my Father's death soon 17 Month's ago,life has been very stressful.I'm having to adjust without my immediate Family,have yet to grieve the loss of my Father and having to contend with the 2 mentioned Sows.

Due to Agoraphobia and the inability to get out my late Father appointed his Sister in-law as "head Executor" of his Estate and appointed his Sister "second in line" to tend to his final affairs.

The both of them have done so many shady things it's unbelievable!They've sold and given away personal possessions they weren't supposed to sell or give away.

Lyn,

I'm the only Heir Dad had and to think those two are acting like these are their things.This is really not a matter of Money or material possessions,it IS my Future without my Family.It is also a means for me to survive until I can finish my Education and provide for myself.

My Father died an unrestful death and getting wrongdoings done against him taken care of is the last thing I can do for him.I WILL see to it that justice is served so Dad can rest in peace.

Nervymeg,

Thank you.When I was younger,I felt shortchanged and cheated,but I came to accept that it was meant to be this way.I may not understand why now,but I eventually will.I'm sad and it hurts very much that my Mother suffered to have a Family and then couldn't stay to enjoy.