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Posted 8/26/2008 1:20 AM (GMT 0)
i don't know whats wrong with me my right side hurts all the time, and my head , tongue, ears body hurt, will it ever get better, no insurance still and i don't want to go into debt over medical cost but i don't know how much more of this i can take, scared to talk to doctor, i always feel like if say anything that its in your head or your seeking more meds, i wish i could quit them all, sorry just venting again sad
Posted 8/26/2008 1:29 AM (GMT 0)

Machelle,

No need for apologies here okay. It's just so very draining when your body is in pain, not reacting or working the way it should. I'm really sorry you are feeling this way. Do you have any idea what it might be? Is it anxiety or medication or do you think it is something more? I can empathise with your worry about the cost, but if it is ruining your quality of like you really need to see a doctor. You do not deserve to feel like this.

If your doctor accuses you of "drug seeking behaviour" (wanting more meds) then find another doctor (or cry, that helps sometimes - joke!). I know if you been slapped in the face with the "it's all in your head" speech by docs then you are reluctant to go back (understatement!)..I wish I could quit all doctors too, but sadly they are the ones with the prescription pad.

If the pain gets worse, please see a doctor immediatley, don't mess with your health. Please take care now, be gentle with yourself, and let us know how you are going. Venting is 100% allowed!

Meg

Posted 8/26/2008 1:37 AM (GMT 0)
i don't know if the meds on the pain, or something else,another thing i had a weird period where i bled light the first day and then the next day i past clots and bled alot , i mean alot, i kept passing more clots, and it stopped,then another thing is my right side is very swollen and when i eat certain foods it hurts worse thinking that might be my gall bladder on that one, the first may be i need a hysterectomy
Posted 8/26/2008 5:14 AM (GMT 0)
machelle... I think you should see a doctor hon.... are there any free clinics or hospitals where you are from.? Is there a health care nursing hotline you can call?
Please try to see someone as soon as possible.... I am praying that you feel better soon... it sounds like you are in a lot of pain. Doctors can be insensitive sometimes . especially when they don't know whats happening ... they'll tell you that its all in your head... Lord I've heard that one often too. Put your foot down... tell him or her that you are fed up and need help.
Please take good care of yourself....
Keeping you in my prayers dear Machelle.
Mary
Posted 8/26/2008 8:41 AM (GMT 0)

Machelle,

That really sounds like you need medical advice. Mary raised the issue of free clinic's, do you have access to one at all? I don't like to hear of you suffering like this. Please put your health first. it is the most valuable thing you have.

Hugs,

Meg

Posted 8/26/2008 3:47 PM (GMT 0)
we don't have insurance yet and i am scared to say anything before we get it, we have been alittle short on money lately but soon it should better, many insurance company won't pay for preexisting condition this is what i am scared of, the charity hospital over here is very bad, and i don't know of any free clinics, if i have to i will go to charity but with personnel experience hasn't been to good, none of the doctors speak english very well at all so you don't know what there going to do.
Posted 8/26/2008 4:03 PM (GMT 0)

machelle

I agree, you never have to apologize for venting. It feels to me like you need to talk this through and get to the physician.  You do not want to wait until something serious happens.  I know the insurance is an issue but your health truly needs to come first.

Take care my friend and know I am thinking of you.

Hugs
Kitt

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