Nikki's Updates With Accident.......Part 2 PLZ Post Here...........

It is okay Brazilgirl. . . Just the fact that you are worrying about it, shows how much you are not like this and I am sure you have nothing to worry about! You are doing great and will continue to get better :)

Thank you Gems :) That is the link to the Münchhausen Syndrome from our Lyn, and then there is Melodee's Trust thread as well my friend. Thank you so much :)

Is anybody sure that garen/nikki is only seventeen ,he or she is a very disturbed person,

I know guys, I am feeling better already, it's just in this period of "recovery" and constant anxiety everything you read/see can cause your stress level to rise. And we ARE going to get through this, I just hate how we have to worry about having a heart attack, a mental illness, and then someone who comes here and "pretend" to be like us do something like this. I remember Nikki replying to one of my posts and being like "you sound so much like me with yours fears", I mean, that's just SO horrible for someone who's REALLY dealing with anxiety/panic and negative thoughts.

Garen said...
 You didnt have to comment on that because you dont know that I would lie to anybody!

Nikki: you are a liar and you make me sick. go get some help. you have made a mockery of HW and all it stands for. how dare you. im so relieved i didnt yet put your card in the mail- ive just put it straight in the trash.

Well here I am and my message to each of you is to know this is not you, this is the action of one person who is very ill and each of you did reach out from the goodness of your heart.   Some got very hurt, our Lyn is one as this is a bad week for her.  She has been unable to sleep and has been beneficial in uncovering the whole lie. She has sent emails to Administration.

Also Garen/Nikki  confessed only after I threatened to post all the facts in the forum and report the behavior including some  background information.  As long as she has come forward and admittted she and Garen are the same person I will not post anymore  detrimental info re her. She does have serious problems and  I pray she will get help.........but I am  angry and I am sure had I not pushed, the story would have  continued.  It was reading like a bad soap opera,  .......so ends the story now.

We have a thread to talk about trust and the next time you feel something is not right, do feel comfortable talking to one of the mods.  99 % of the people here are truthful and need the support and love of the members. Each of you has the right to your own feelings re this lie so no guilty feelings for being hurt or upset.

We here at HealingWell  will heal and we will become stronger because we have come through this together. There are no secrets anymore.........nikki was never in the hosptial in critical care and Garen was her made up friend.

My deepest respect to each of you.

Kitt

I am so bleeding upset
I to did alot of work as well as did other mods here on a/p to find out the truth so that it would not get THIS far..........
I also Lost a Hubby to drunk driver......
LIL sis and I spoke of how to handle this by phone daily
Other mods by email
WE ALL tried to protect you as best we could
The reason for M Sydrome Thread for instance ...
Trust input
WE have gone above and beyond the call of being mods IMHO but thats why we are here for you and for the FAMILY

Garen/Nikki
So nice to chat with you last night
A real blast......THANKS........

To all
This is a wonderful family still no matter what or who tries to ruin it
PLEASE do not stop posting and keep yor head high
We all fell for bull at first but when it was the crunch..........

Manipulation of a/p ppl is not good at all
Nor for anyone
I am so sorry that you were all taken in
WE did try to stop it asap

Luvs to all
Your Mod Team



I have ONLY ever wanted a family that supports and is honest here
I am not having a good week as it is with both hubby's and Mom's death anni 17 n 20th.

Garen said...
FINE ITS THE SAME PERSON ARE YOU HAPPY?!?!?!

No. Im not happy. Far from it.

Lyn, i know you worked hard to uncover all this as well and i agree with Julie that the mods have done outstanding work under very difficult circumstances.

As for you, Nikki, I will not speak to you again as it is a waste of my time. but i cant believe you expect us to all forgive you like nothing ever happened! this has to be one of the most hurtful, deceitful tangled web i have ever been drawn into. you have actually made members physically upset, anxious and sick with worry. you are selfish and pathetic. others may be willing to forgive and forget, but i am not ready to take the high road. I believe you deserve all the critical comments that you are claiming to be hurt by. because the hurt you feel right now does NOT compare to the hurt you inflicted on people here who classed you as family. PAST TENSE.

Also: do not try to email me again, or make contact via myspace as i have blocked you on there.

ok, REAL family, lets move on. we dont need this and we can pull together and get back to dealing with people who are genuinely in need. No more trickery. No more making us feel like fools. we took a hit in the last few days but we will get back on top of this.

Maz XX