Good Morning Bobbysgirl,
I do see why you are worrying about your anxiety spiking as you have been through a lot lately. ((((((((Hugs))))))))))).
One of the best remedies for anxiety is to talk about it. Here's where good friends and family can come in. The old adage "A problem shared is a problem halved"
If you prefer not to try medications here is a link to a free online help site for CBT therapy. You can work the program from you own home on your own time.
Cognitive-behavioral therapy is based on the idea that our thoughts cause our feelings and behaviors, not external things, like people, situations, and events. The benefit of this fact is that we can change the way we think to feel / act better even if the situation does not change.
Here is the link to the MoodGYM online program:
http://moodgym.anu.edu.au/welcome
Many members have used this online help program and I hope you find it is a tool that will help you.
I wish you peace,
Kitt