ME,
Good Morning and glad to hear your computer is up and running.
Remeron and Effexor are not members of the SSRI or SNRI family and most people on either medication seem to do well using it for either anxiety or depression.
Many people do not have the best of luck with the SSRIs myself included.
I can understand your anxiety going into overdrive when the gagging comes over you. I have a tendency to feel anxious or sad and the overwhelming feels cause me to cry, I just cannot help myself so I will often leave the area and let the tears out as I do not want anyone to see me.
Wondering if you have ever seen a therapist for one on one counseling. Coming here, seeing a therapist and medications have helped me.
Keep talking with us and know we care.
Kindly,
Kitt