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Posted 4/26/2011 8:06 PM (GMT 0)
Hi All

Hope every one is doing ok? I not been around much. I have a big meeting tomorrow which will decide wether I still have a job or not. If i loose my job I am going to take it all the way through the appeal process and a tribunal if needed.

My anxiety has consumed me and I am not feeling well due to posable kidney problems which I am undergoing tests at the moment.

I don't think I will get much sleep tonight due to worry but will let you know how it goes.


Hibee
Posted 4/26/2011 8:17 PM (GMT 0)
Hi Hibee,

Best of luck! Our thoughts will be with you!

Sincerely,

SnakeCharmer
Posted 4/27/2011 3:45 AM (GMT 0)
Hey, I almost sent you an e-mail today... hadn't heard from you and was wondering...glad that you posted. I am keeping my fingers crossed for your meeting.

Tell your kidneys to behave themselves. But seriously your health is #1 priority, so take care of yourself. I will keep you in thoughts and prayers!

Let us know how everything goes as soon as you can. Remeber rest, water, breathing and relaxation exercises, meditation, music, ect...

Take care, friend.
S.C.
Posted 4/27/2011 1:59 PM (GMT 0)
Hi

Meeting was predictable was a closed court, Managers taking care of managers. My contract is to be terminated due to medical capability very upset and disappointed. My union rep was very good and feels we can appeal strongly but it looks like it will go all the way to an employment tribunal.

I was ok in the meeting as I was expecting that decision, It really hit me on the way home though to the enormity of the situation I am now in and what the future will hold for me I don't know and feeling scared about that especially in terms of my mental health.

Hibee
Posted 4/27/2011 2:27 PM (GMT 0)
Ben,

I am so sorry the meeting went just as you feared and I can understand why your anxiety kicked in.  I am glad you are going to fight it but try to remember that you must put yourself first and choose your battles carefully.  Remember you must take care of yourself and I am right here to cheer you on.  My email is open so if your looking for a friend just shoot me an email.


"When one door closes another door opens; but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us." - Alexander Graham Bell

Look for the sunshine, Ben, it is there and I feel there are good things coming your way so look for another door .  I know the search is not easy.

Gentle Hugs,

Kitt

Posted 4/27/2011 2:57 PM (GMT 0)
Well forum rules prohibit what I would like to say about the management of your workplace...I am so sorry and dissapointed at this outcome. You are everything that I would look for in an employee. Kind, dependable, capable, smart...they must be either blind or they have their heads...oops, again, rules!

Kitt is right, health is priority #1, so take some time to decompress. I don't want to see you having panic on top of all the other stuff that you have going on, so here goes the mother hen routine again...rest, healthy foods, exercise (if you can, how r u feeling?) breathing/relaxation exercises, ect...

You can e-mail Kitt and/or I (and Cc both if you want) and we can really have a rant fest;)

Take care of yourself,
S.C.
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