Posted 8/21/2011 7:43 PM (GMT 0)
I just wanted to add something to this thread. I hope I can be succinct.
Anxiety is the body's defense mechanism, which is a good thing. If there is an actual threat, the body reacts appropriately to protect itself using the fight or flight response. That system is the one responsible for you jumping out of the way of a car if you step into the street and some idiot runs a red light. You jump back on the curb, scream something at the idiot, then take a deep breath, a sigh of relief if you will. What happens with anxiety is that the body is constantly on alert, the fight or flight system is running all the time, but there is no 'real' danger present. So, what happens then is that the mind tries to find some kind of threat to justify all these crazy sensations ( the racing heart, the sweating, the hot flashes, the numbness in the hands, whatever the symptoms may be ).
In the absence of real danger the mind will latch onto whatever is available. People without anxiety have strange or disturbing thoughts running through their minds from time to time as well, but, they are able to just dismiss them. With anxiety, we immediately attach urgency and meaning to the thought because our minds connect the sensations of panic and anxiety with the disturbing thought. Does that make sense? In other words, if you weren't anxious and you had the same thought about being crazy, you might think hmmm... but you wouldn't react with such panic. Anxiety makes us attach importance to things that otherwise would be benign because we want so desperately to have a reason for feeling so panicky!
The bottom line is try to think of your disturbing thoughts as just that, thoughts.
Kindly,
Kitt